"I think it's that I have this fear of hurting um teen-agers. I think it's because I was yelled at all the time when I was a teen-ager, and um I really hated it and thought it was ineffective and I don't want to be that person who yells at them, even though I feel like need to get yelled at sometimes."

"So I think for them maybe it's hard for them to sort of negotiate me and how they should act and what's appropriate and like, what boundaries, and you know we could see them really pushing those boundaries."

"It’s a lot more likely for one of the participants to not show up because they’ve got to go to Footlocker and buy a new pair of kicks! That’s a lot more realistic, and more common for that to be the reason."

"It was just like, these kids are so incredibly intelligent when they’re engaged in that discussion. They’re still going to act a fool, and act like their regular selves and be like, “I’m the boss!” even after that."